This advice is as much in your own self-interest as it is in your lover's, as, if you attempt to interfere with his family, you're essentially forcing him to choose between you and his wife, which may end badly for you to say nothing of the damage his family might experience. Consider whether you and he believe in monogamy. This one of the unfortunate consequences to dating a married man. Have a life outside of him. Not Helpful 2 Helpful After the train of the unfortunate relations, with the appearance of the grey hair, a man finally begins to understand that the woman with whom he exchanged the wedding rings and swore in love is the best of all women.
Was he honest with you, or did he lie, and you found out the truth later on?
Affair Survival: Tips For Dating a Married Man