Why is push-pull considered a legit dating strategy in getting girls? A hot and cold player reverts to cold as the norm, with bursts of hot that don't result in forward movement. Soon as you show interest or fall in love its a wrap. Trust me even the "good men" use push-pull tactics. They'll toy at it, dipping their toes in and out of the water without ever getting wet. After a cycle or two of this routine you'll be so confused you won't know which way to move.
It's long been the rule that when dating someone whose behavior is marked by hot and cold reactivity, you're standing on shaky ground.
Women who have mastered the Push-Pull game - Share your secrets
But knowing of their existence and recognizing their predictable patterns will allow your dating to be a rewarding, rather than confusing, experience. Nov 19, 1. He said i was making him lose interest. If she knows she can easily have him without a fight then she tends to lose interest of he is showing too much. Win a man senses that there is competition he wants to win and defeat the other males. Unfortunately, women tend not to be very smart about men until they get burned enough times and bad enough, but depending on the conscious or lack of, you can target naive or younger women who haven't learned yet after making the wrong decision for the 10th time.