While I might have enjoyed their company, I knew better than to stick around with a stagnant man for too long, and I continued my search knowing that lowering my standards just because a guy looked good or because he was fun was not going to be an option for me. In my experience, black men may begin telling you of their interest while in a group but, assuming the woman gets the go-ahead, he will have y'all moved to a more private space to continue talking. I considered myself an open-minded individual so I knew that my dating options needed to widen. It's not not meant to be disrespectful, but more acknowledging that he could meet someone he's interested in anywhere and may never see them again. Let's go back to Black flirting. Since I can only speak on my personal interactions I find that the barrier is a strange but important thing to note. One night in Sydney, I was a little taken by a year-old woman in a gay bar.
I grew up in a single-parent household where husband and wife roles were non-existent.
White Women, Black Men
Theoretically this places no restrictions on access to women, and in practice it is not unusual for a woman to be approached by different, men during the course of a day, especially if she is attractive. They showed me the ropes of dating and the significance of marriage. In black dynamics, things have been discussed, and both parties accepted. Passive vs Forward expression of sexual interest. Now the ball is in the woman's court.